QotD: Love at First Sight

What first attracted you to the person you're currently dating?

Can I get an L O L??!!

How about his sheer invisibility. His non-responsiveness when I call his (nonexistent) name. His ability to just.. not be detected. :P

Now that I'm done being a smart... :P What attracts me to the people I'd LIKE to date?

One makes me feel amazing about myself. He calls me "pretty girl" or variations thereon. He's unobtrusive, but very kind. He's clearly intelligent and has a variety of life experience, and he seems to be an all around good guy. Now, whether he's equally as kind with all of the women in the room, I'm not sure. I certainly haven't seen it yet. (but yes, that'd make a difference.).

The other is just an absolute spiritual ROCK. He changed my life and now he's changing the lives of others. He was gentle and unassuming, but there when you needed him, and he'd kick your tushie if you deserved it - either verbally to put you in line, or physically using martial arts. I think that even if he and I don't end up dating, he will be a standard against which I test my intended suitors.

You may all "awwwwwwwwwwwwwww" now.